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Fourth Sunday of Advent
Matthew 1;18-25
December 19,2010
The first time I read this text, I thought: “Well, just another nice text to consider.” Then I read it again! Wow!! There are so many characters involved in these few verses and above all so much mysterious activity. There are Jesus, Mary, Joseph, the Holy Spirit, an angel of the Lord, reference to a prophet, a prophecy, etc. Then poor Mary, maybe 14 years old, who has been overwhelmed by the message to her about her child. Now, poor Joseph, around 30, receives a message from God via a dream regarding the same child, that the infant should be named Jesus because he will save God’s children from their sins, and that he should not be afraid.
Now, call me crazy, but that is exactly what Joseph must be in order not to be completely baffled and overtaken by this business. The poor man was a tekton, a stonemason who built walls for houses. How could he understand all of this happening?! Even a scribe, a person who could read and write, a scholar, would not be able to comprehend what was happening. Pregnant by God? Don’t be afraid? Please. Let’s be reasonable!
Luke says that Joseph was a righteous man. Righteous definitely means moral and virtuous, but the greater meaning is that he was in “right relation with God.” His relationship with God was much like the idea of marriage at the time. Love has taken on the element of deep feelings since the Romantic Age. Love has been conceived as a feeling of intense emotions. In Joseph and Mary’s day, love was a commitment to each other, to provide stability in order to bring children into the world. Consider Fiddler on the Roof as an example.
An older man, established in his occupation, would marry a younger woman who was of child-bearing age, and they would establish a family. Marriage was a commitment of faithfulness to the marital relationship. Joseph, being a righteous man, would not expose Mary to public ridicule and rejection. In fact, he saved her life, for adultery was punishable by stoning to death. And the stones were not pebbles!
Joseph’s relationship with God was the same. It was a commitment. “I am the LORD your God. You shall have no other gods before me.” Surely, we all have other gods: people and values for which we are concerned and which affect our lives and decisions. But Joseph had made the commitment and lived accordingly that God would be his ultimate value. And he lived in this relationship, and God was greatest influence on his life. That is what it means to be righteous.
Confused? Bewildered? Completely beyond his comprehension? Of course. Who among us can even explain the miracle of birth in our own normal situations let alone a virgin birth?
In spite of all of this, when Joseph awoke, “he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him.” Remarkable. That, in itself, is a miracle!
What all of this means to us is this: we have to pay attention to the for-s in our lives. “Do not be afraid, for….” “You are to name him Jesus, for….” We are children of God, for — for God has chosen us, for God has come to us, for God loves us in spite of our fears and doubts…. What an absolutely remarkable God we have! Amen.